I think that love varies in different shape and sizes. Love doesn’t have to be your partner it could be your family, your dog, a sport or even an object. I haven’t really had a love experience with a partner. But I do love my family and friends very much. Without feeling loved or being in love I think that people would feel empty and lonely. Love is a necessity in life. My parents might not tell me they love me all the time, but i know everything they do for me and my brothers is because they love us. Our parents want us to be successful. Love isn’t  something someone could just use. It is valuable and people should treat it well when they have it. Love is different for everyone, for me it is to let people know they are wanted and for me to feel needed. Love can’t be described only guided. We can all give tips on how to flirt but at the end you just have to be yourself and nothing else because you will only be lying to yourself. It’s  all personal experiences and we can’t change how your love life is. It’s your own journey that’s what makes it love. You have to find it because it’s not a pre-written journal, you are writing your love story, no one else can. You know you have found real love when you and your loved one encounter a problem, situation or argument that you work through together to find a solution or resolution in which you both agree with. Or in a severe case, with death, illness or divorce, you and your loved one need to be able to help each other heal and recover from this situation. You need to grow together and find someone who makes you a better person who you can truly rely on in times of need. Love is perceived in every different possible way, but universally, ideally, the meaning of life is to find real love, it is to find the meaning of love.